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Guidance for Individuals Having an Affair

"At the heart of an affair, you will often find a longing and a yearning for an emotional connection, for novelty, for freedom, for autonomy, for sexual intensity, a wish to recapture lost parts of ourselves or an attempt to bring back vitality..." - Esther Perel

"How did I get here? I never thought I'd..." The secrecy of your affair is isolating. The only two in your love nest are you and your affair partner. Being in your affair is both a relief and a stressor. Individuals having an affair often feel highly stressed and anxious, as the tension of living dual existences takes a physical toll. On the one hand you feel guilt, fear, and confusion; on the other you feel exhilarated, free, and alive in a way you haven't in a long time.

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You have found yourself in an extramarital relationship for reasons unique to you. Some reasons you're aware of, and others you may be unclear about. 

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Our work together will provide a confidential and safe space to explore all aspects of your affair experience. Your deepest desires, your boundaries, your identity. Sessions are judgment-free;  you'll find an empathy that will help you understand your most authentic self and discern how to forge ahead.

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