For spouses caught between their marriage and their affair.
Finally make the decision you can stand behind — without the fog,
the guilt spiral, or another year
of limbo.
An affair doesn't just complicate your life — it distorts the way you think. The Decision-Making Method is the proven, self-guided, private process for clearing the fog, making a confident decision, and reclaiming your life now — without more wasted time or years of regret.
Lifetime access · Completely private · 100% Guaranteed
Living between your marriage and your affair isn't living — it's purgatory.
Every week you wait is another week lost to limbo.
Imagine reclaiming a life where you...
✔ Wake up each morning knowing exactly where you stand. No more 2am thought spirals, no more of the constant flip-flopping that's kept you stuck for so long
✔ Make a decision that comes from your values and your clarity, not from fear, guilt, or exhaustion
​✔ Look at both relationships honestly, without the fog distorting everything you think and see
✔ Finally stop living in two worlds and start building one life you actually chose
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✔ Stand behind your decision six months, a year, five years from now — and know it was the right one for you
Real People. Real Lives. Real Results.
Whether the choice is to stay or go, hundreds of people just like you have reclaimed their life from affair fog with The Decision-Making Method.
*identities changed to protect the confidentiality of testimonials
"Because of this program, that feeling of knowing still hasn't left me, even when it has become challenging. I am clear about how and why I am making my choice for myself, not for either partner. The risks of losing either or both are real, but because I gained clarity I can proceed with confidence."
Laura K.
"I took your course, and it helped me make a rational decision, and not to jump ship at a time where that's what I was feeling. So I THANK YOU for that. Your work is really meaningful and helped me gain and keep clarity. I realized that I needed this experience to force me to grow, to stop running from responsibilities and take ownership of my life."
Jason C.
"Without this program, I would have lost either or both partners, and the family I've created without owning myself and my story. I have a real vision for the future and a sense of purpose that is helping me to show up as who I want to become.
Frank T.
Grounded in Personal Experience
+ Professional Expertise
I'm Lauren LaRusso, licensed psychotherapist, affair specialist, and author of 'BEYOND INFIDELITY.' I want to share exactly why this program is so important. When my own spouse had an affair, there were no tangible tools to help us evaluate the choice to stay or go. The biggest decision of our life was made in reaction and overwhelm, not clarity — and I know exactly how much that costs.
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That experience drove me to dedicate my practice exclusively helping people arrive at a clear, lasting decision they can stand behind. The Decision-Making Method hands you the map forward, from the comfort of your own home, based on your unique values, priorities, and situation, that would require months of direct coaching to reveal.
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I've now guided hundreds of people through this process. This course is the antidote to the missed considerations, the blind-spots, the affair fog, and the emotion-based decision making that lead people to make decisions they later regret.
This is the map we desperately needed then; and it's the map everyone in an affair should have now.
Inside The Decision-Making Method:
Module 2
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Understand the hidden costs of split living
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Assess your connection in each relationship
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Identify cognitive errors that could trap you
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Evaluate the affair's impact
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Understand your unique journey
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Depth of work that would take hours of private coaching with me over months to achieve, all delivered in a structured, guided process at your own pace.
A $497 value
Module 3
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Separate feelings from facts in both relationships
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Clarify your gains and losses for each choice
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Visioning exercises to clarify your future
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Reality-based future expectation setting
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​Proprietary exercises I use in private sessions designed to give you the personal insights most people miss when they're evaluating their marriage and affair.
A $497 value
Lifetime Access
Revisit the material whenever you need it as your journey continues to unfold. Return to the modules when you wonder if you made the right decision. This program becomes the foundation you can return to time and again. Lifetime access includes all future updates. offering a peace of mind that has no price.
Choose The Decision-Making Method Plan That's Best For You
100% Guaranteed
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If you have completed this course in its entirety and it has not helped you, reach out to our team and we will refund you fully. No questions asked.
FAQs
What does my purchase show up as on my credit card?
The statement descriptor for your purchase is 'LL CONS.'
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How long will I have access?
Forever. When you enroll, you get lifetime access to the course and every future update. This work is not something you complete once and close the tab — many people return to specific modules months or years later to reaffirm their work.
Is this right for my specific situation?
The Decision-Making Method is a process built for spouses in an affair — whether the affair is ongoing or recently ended, emotional or physical, discovered by a spouse or not. The work inside is about you; what the affair is illuminating for you, what you actually want, and who you actually are underneath the circumstances. The specifics of your situation do not change what the inventory reveals. The process meets you where you are.
How much time does this take?
You move through it at your own pace. The course is designed to be completed over several weeks, but some people successfully move through it quickly in one focused stretch, while others spread it across months and find that time valuable. What matters is that you do the work honestly — not how fast.
What do I need technology-wise?
A computer or mobile device and an internet connection. Everything is delivered through a private, password-protected portal you can access anytime, from anywhere.
Is this private?
One of the most valuable aspects of this course is that it's completely private and on your terms. It's built to be consumed in a way that protects your privacy and process.
I've already worked with a therapist. How is this different?
Therapy is valuable, and this is not a replacement for it. What the Decision-Making Method offers that individual therapy often does not is a structured, thorough guided inventory specifically designed for the decision in front of you. Most therapists are trained to hold space; this process is designed to give you forward motion. Many people who come to the Method have already been in therapy for months. They come here because they need something more specific than what therapy alone has been able to give them.
What if I'm not ready to be fully honest yet?
This is important — and it is exactly where this work begins. You do not need to arrive with all the answers. You need to arrive willing to look. The course is designed to meet you where you are and move you forward from there; at your own pace, in your own time, with no one watching.
What if my marriage or affair ends anyway?
The program does not determine the outcome — it determines the quality of the decision that produces it. A decision made from genuine self-knowledge holds, regardless of what it is. That means whatever happens on the other side — whether you recommit to your marriage, build something new, or end a relationship you once thought you couldn't — you will have made it consciously, honestly, and from a place you can stand behind for the rest of your life. Since there are no guarantees in relationships, the solid personal inventory gained from this course is worth everything.
What if I start and don't finish?
You have lifetime access, so there is no "didn't finish" — only "haven't finished yet." This program waits for you. Many people begin, pause for a few weeks, and return when they're ready. That is part of how the program is designed.