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Should I Hire a Private Detective If I Think My Spouse is Having an Affair?
Should you hire a private investigator (PI) if you suspect your spouse is having an affair? Consider the pros and cons before you act.
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Jan 16, 20232 min read


Why We Stay Stuck After an Affair: Words vs. Actions
We stay stuck in affairs because we attach to the other person’s words while we explain away their behaviors, which don’t match.
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Sep 26, 20222 min read


Why is An Affair So Hard to Stop?
Get my Masterclass that's helped HUNDREDS of people successfully end their affair -- all while also growing and learning in important ways, at the same time. There’s no mistaking that once an affair has begun its extremely hard to stop. But why? You might wonder. After all, you have self-control, right? So can’t you reason your way out of an affair? Why can’t you just cut it off? Here are the main reasons that ending an affair is so difficult: Affairs Are Addictive Having an
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Jul 25, 20223 min read


How to End an Affair: It's Like Detox and Rehab
How do you end an affair? Its not easy, but its possible, and with commitment and conviction, you can get your life back.
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Mar 15, 20225 min read


Do Affairs Happen When there's Not Enough Sex in the Marriage?
You've heard the whispering (mis-informed) judgment before: 'He/she wouldn't have strayed if they were satisfied at home." True? FALSE....
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Jan 25, 20222 min read


How Long Can an Affair Last?
I get this question a lot. How long can an affair last? What's the longest affair you've seen? The short answer: An affair can go on...
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Jan 19, 20223 min read


Affair vs. Betrayal: Which is it?
Is it an affair? Is it a betrayal? .... is it cheating? How do we define the wound in a marriage? I like Esther Perel's triad definition...
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Nov 9, 20213 min read
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