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Self-Worth and Vulnerability to Infidelity
Unworthiness is one of the quietest, most insidious forces behind infidelity. Shaky self-worth is so easy to dismiss ; "I don't have an...
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8 hours ago3 min read
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The Mother Wound and Infidelity
For many, an affair is not just about sex or excitement; it’s an unconscious attempt to fill an emotional gap. Where did the emotional...
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6 days ago3 min read
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Infidelity and the Father Wound
The concept of the father wound refers to emotional injuries  sustained from a father who was absent, critical, abusive, emotionally...
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Apr 253 min read
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Curiosity Killed the Cat
Curiosity can contribute to an affair by sparking a desire to explore something new, whether that involves another person , a different...
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Apr 212 min read
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All It Takes to Stoke an Affair is Outside Interest
When someone outside the marriage shows interest—whether it’s a flirtatious comment, a lingering glance, or simply remembering small...
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Apr 112 min read
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Is There a Connection Between ADHD and Infidelity?
The Intersection of ADHD and Infidelity  Let me be entirely clear: ADHD doesn’t cause infidelity. I repeat, ADHD does not cause a person...
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Apr 62 min read
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Did You Cheat Because You Were Bored?
Boredom: A Vulnerable Void Filled by Infidelity  When life becomes predictable—managing schedules, raising kids, going to work—it’s easy...
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Apr 63 min read
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When Love Feels Like a Cage: How Enmeshment Can Lead to Infidelity
Have you ever felt like you're losing yourself in a relationship—like your identity is slowly blending into your partner’s? That’s...
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Mar 232 min read
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The Entitlement Trap: How a Sense of Entitlement (or Lack Thereof) Fuels Infidelity
Entitlement & Affairs: When "I Deserve More" Leads to Betrayal  Have you ever said to yourself, " I deserve this " to justify a decision?...
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Mar 233 min read
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Boundaries: The Most Essential Part of Avoiding Infidelity
Imagine that having clear personal boundaries in a relationship is like putting up a sturdy fence around your home. Without a strong...
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Mar 102 min read
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What's the Connection Between Substance Use and Infidelity?
Substance Use and Infidelity  Substance use can significantly impair judgment and lower inhibitions, setting the stage for impulsive...
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Mar 22 min read
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Affair That Arise from Realizing What You Want After You're Already Married
An affair often begins when someone realizes that what they once wanted from life or marriage no longer aligns with who they’ve become....
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Feb 213 min read
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An Affair as a Reclamation of Lost Parts of Ourselves
Sometimes, infidelity arises from a diminished sense of self—a feeling that one’s true identity has been overshadowed by the demands of...
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Feb 142 min read
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Affairs That Begin Because of Frequent Interaction: Workplace Affairs, Community Affairs, and Affairs Between Friends
Imagine you work side-by-side with someone every day—a coworker you grab coffee with or a friend you often collaborate with on projects....
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Feb 72 min read
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An Affair and Cortisol Addiction
Cortisol addiction can play a significant role in the experience of an affair by creating a physiological and emotional cycle that...
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Jan 312 min read
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Affairs and Your Childlike Self
As we come out of childhood, we learn that being an adult means being mature, responsible, and building a life that gives ourselves, and...
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Jan 242 min read
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Affairs and Your Attachment Style
Attachment Styles  Attachment theory is a psychological framework that explains how early interactions with primary caregivers shape our...
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Jan 173 min read
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How Can A Marriage Recover from Infidelity?
Infidelity does not have to mean the end of a marriage. While an affair is a major crisis in a marriage, many couples stay together after...
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Mar 14, 20234 min read
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How to Affair-Proof Your Marriage
Even though there's no fail-proof way to protect your relationship from infidelity, if you keep these tips at the forefront you'll be active
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Feb 1, 20234 min read
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Should I Hire a Private Detective If I Think My Spouse is Having an Affair?
Should you hire a private investigator (PI) if you suspect your spouse is having an affair? Consider the pros and cons before you act.
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Jan 16, 20232 min read
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