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How to Affair-Proof Your Marriage
Even though there's no fail-proof way to protect your relationship from infidelity, if you keep these tips at the forefront you'll be active

Lauren LaRusso
Feb 1, 20234 min read


Should I Hire a Private Detective If I Think My Spouse is Having an Affair?
Should you hire a private investigator (PI) if you suspect your spouse is having an affair? Consider the pros and cons before you act.

Lauren LaRusso
Jan 16, 20232 min read


Why We Stay Stuck After an Affair: Words vs. Actions
We stay stuck in affairs because we attach to the other person’s words while we explain away their behaviors, which don’t match.

Lauren LaRusso
Sep 26, 20222 min read


Why is An Affair So Hard to Stop?
Get the program that's helped HUNDREDS of people successfully end their affair while becoming their strongest, wisest version. There’s no mistaking that once an affair has begun its extremely hard to stop. But why? You might wonder. After all, you have self-control, right? So can’t you reason your way out of an affair? Why can’t you just cut it off? Here are the main reasons that ending an affair is so difficult: Affairs Are Addictive Having an affair lights up the same areas

Lauren LaRusso
Jul 25, 20223 min read


Do Affairs Happen When there's Not Enough Sex in the Marriage?
You've heard the whispering (mis-informed) judgment before: 'He/she wouldn't have strayed if they were satisfied at home." True? FALSE....

Lauren LaRusso
Jan 25, 20222 min read


How Long Can an Affair Last?
I get this question a lot. How long can an affair last? What's the longest affair you've seen? The short answer: An affair can go on...

Lauren LaRusso
Jan 19, 20223 min read


Affair vs. Betrayal: Which is it?
Is it an affair? Is it a betrayal? .... is it cheating? How do we define the wound in a marriage? I like Esther Perel's triad definition...

Lauren
Nov 9, 20213 min read
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