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Why is An Affair So Hard to Stop?
Get my Masterclass that's helped HUNDREDS of people successfully end their affair -- all while also growing and learning in important ways, at the same time. There’s no mistaking that once an affair has begun its extremely hard to stop. But why? You might wonder. After all, you have self-control, right? So can’t you reason your way out of an affair? Why can’t you just cut it off? Here are the main reasons that ending an affair is so difficult: Affairs Are Addictive Having an
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Jul 25, 20223 min read


Will My Spouse’s Affair End on its Own?
Will an affair end on its own? Waiting out infidity is challenging but possible. Get help knowing when to wait and when to go.
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Jul 7, 20223 min read


Affairs and Gottman's Four Horsemen: Divorce Predictor
If you're evaluating your marriage after the discovery of an affair, or if you're trying to navigate the post-affair discovery phase, you...
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Jun 22, 20223 min read


3 Ways to Make Your Marriage Better After an Affair
How to improve your marriage after an affair. Infidelity can lead to a better marriage with commitment and hard work.
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Jun 11, 20224 min read


When Your Marriage Ends Due to Infidelity: Recommended Podcasts
Infidelity is such a strange thing. On the one hand, it seems to be a catalyst to most divorces. On the other hand, it's not talked about...
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May 1, 20222 min read


3 Things Not to Do When You Discover Your Spouse's Affair
"D-Day" happened.... Discovery Day, that is. Your worst suspicions are true. Your husband/wife/partner has been seeing someone else or...
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Apr 18, 20223 min read


What to Do When Your Spouse Won't End Their Affair
Help! My spouse is having an affair, and even after they've promised to end it, they haven't. What do I do? You've discovered that your...
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Mar 29, 20225 min read


How to Take Care of Yourself When Ending Your Affair
You're trying to end your affair and you don't know what to DO with all the PAIN. You're trying to remind yourself that being in the...
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Mar 15, 20225 min read


How to End an Affair: It's Like Detox and Rehab
How do you end an affair? Its not easy, but its possible, and with commitment and conviction, you can get your life back.
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Mar 15, 20225 min read


Do Affairs Happen When there's Not Enough Sex in the Marriage?
You've heard the whispering (mis-informed) judgment before: 'He/she wouldn't have strayed if they were satisfied at home." True? FALSE....
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Jan 25, 20222 min read


Video: How Long Can an Affair Last?
For a written description of this subject, please see the related blog post How Long Can an Affair Last? Lauren provides...
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Jan 22, 20221 min read


How Long Can an Affair Last?
I get this question a lot. How long can an affair last? What's the longest affair you've seen? The short answer: An affair can go on...
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Jan 19, 20223 min read


Affair vs. Betrayal: Which is it?
Is it an affair? Is it a betrayal? .... is it cheating? How do we define the wound in a marriage? I like Esther Perel's triad definition...
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Nov 9, 20213 min read
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