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Should I Hire a Private Detective If I Think My Spouse is Having an Affair?

Should you hire a private investigator (PI) if you suspect your spouse is having an affair? Consider the pros and cons before you act.

Jan 16, 20232 min read

Three Reasons You Should End Your Affair

Whether you end your affair in order to re-commit to your marriage, or whether you end it in order to pursue the affair as a primary...

Jan 10, 20235 min read

Affair Healing: How Did I Contribute to the End of My Marriage?

When your spouse has an affair your marriage is over. The first marriage, the one that led to an affair, is done. Whether you have...

Nov 17, 20224 min read

How Can I Make My Husband End His Affair?

Lauren, I'm at my wits end. I discovered my husband's affair three months ago. He vowed to end it, said he did so, and said he'd go to...

Oct 12, 20224 min read

Why Can't I End My Affair?

Get the Masterclass that has helped hundreds of people end their affair for good. Once an affair begins its usually extremely difficult...

Oct 5, 20225 min read

Self-Care After You Discover Your Spouse's Affair

How to take care of yourself and set the foundation for healing after finding out about your spouse's affair.

Sep 27, 20223 min read

Why We Stay Stuck After an Affair: Words vs. Actions

We stay stuck in affairs because we attach to the other person’s words while we explain away their behaviors, which don’t match.

Sep 26, 20222 min read

How to Deal When Your Affair Ends A Friendship

How do you cope when a valued friend learns about your affair and it ends your friendship? This can be a painful and unexpected response...

Aug 9, 20225 min read

Why is An Affair So Hard to Stop?

Get my Masterclass that's helped HUNDREDS of people successfully end their affair -- all while also growing and learning in important...

Jul 25, 20223 min read

Will My Spouse’s Affair End on its Own?

Will an affair end on its own? Waiting out infidity is challenging but possible. Get help knowing when to wait and when to go.

Jul 7, 20223 min read

Affairs and Gottman's Four Horsemen: Divorce Predictor

If you're evaluating your marriage after the discovery of an affair, or if you're trying to navigate the post-affair discovery phase, you...

Jun 22, 20223 min read

3 Ways to Make Your Marriage Better After an Affair

How to improve your marriage after an affair. Infidelity can lead to a better marriage with commitment and hard work.

Jun 11, 20224 min read

When Your Marriage Ends Due to Infidelity: Recommended Podcasts

Infidelity is such a strange thing. On the one hand, it seems to be a catalyst to most divorces. On the other hand, it's not talked about...

May 1, 20222 min read

3 Things Not to Do When You Discover Your Spouse's Affair

"D-Day" happened.... Discovery Day, that is. Your worst suspicions are true. Your husband/wife/partner has been seeing someone else or...

Apr 18, 20223 min read

What to Do When Your Spouse Won't End Their Affair

Help! My spouse is having an affair, and even after they've promised to end it, they haven't. What do I do? You've discovered that your...

Mar 29, 20225 min read

How to Take Care of Yourself When Ending Your Affair

You're trying to end your affair and you don't know what to DO with all the PAIN. You're trying to remind yourself that being in the...

Mar 15, 20225 min read

How to End an Affair: It's Like Detox and Rehab

How do you end an affair? Its not easy, but its possible, and with commitment and conviction, you can get your life back.

Mar 15, 20225 min read

Do Affairs Happen When there's Not Enough Sex in the Marriage?

You've heard the whispering (mis-informed) judgment before: 'He/she wouldn't have strayed if they were satisfied at home." True? FALSE....

Jan 25, 20222 min read

Video: How Long Can an Affair Last?

For a written description of this subject, please see the related blog post How Long Can an Affair Last? Lauren provides...

Jan 22, 20221 min read

How Long Can an Affair Last?

I get this question a lot. How long can an affair last? What's the longest affair you've seen? The short answer: An affair can go on...

Jan 19, 20223 min read

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