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An Affair and Cortisol Addiction
Cortisol addiction can play a significant role in the experience of an affair by creating a physiological and emotional cycle that...
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Jan 31, 20252 min read


Affairs and Your Childlike Self
As we come out of childhood, we learn that being an adult means being mature, responsible, and building a life that gives ourselves, and...
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Jan 24, 20252 min read


Affairs and Your Attachment Style
Attachment Styles Attachment theory is a psychological framework that explains how early interactions with primary caregivers shape our...
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Jan 17, 20253 min read


How Can A Marriage Recover from Infidelity?
Infidelity does not have to mean the end of a marriage. While an affair is a major crisis in a marriage, many couples stay together after...
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Mar 14, 20234 min read


How to Affair-Proof Your Marriage
Even though there's no fail-proof way to protect your relationship from infidelity, if you keep these tips at the forefront you'll be active
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Feb 1, 20234 min read


Should I Hire a Private Detective If I Think My Spouse is Having an Affair?
Should you hire a private investigator (PI) if you suspect your spouse is having an affair? Consider the pros and cons before you act.
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Jan 16, 20232 min read


Three Reasons You Should End Your Affair
Whether you end your affair in order to re-commit to your marriage, or whether you end it in order to pursue the affair as a primary...
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Jan 10, 20235 min read


Affair Healing: How Did I Contribute to the End of My Marriage?
When your spouse has an affair your marriage is over. The first marriage, the one that led to an affair, is done. Whether you have...
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Nov 17, 20224 min read


How Can I Make My Husband End His Affair?
Lauren, I'm at my wits end. I discovered my husband's affair three months ago. He vowed to end it, said he did so, and said he'd go to...
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Oct 12, 20224 min read


Why Can't I End My Affair?
Get the Masterclass that has helped hundreds of people end their affair for good. Once an affair begins its usually extremely difficult...
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Oct 5, 20225 min read


Self-Care After You Discover Your Spouse's Affair
How to take care of yourself and set the foundation for healing after finding out about your spouse's affair.
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Sep 27, 20223 min read


Why We Stay Stuck After an Affair: Words vs. Actions
We stay stuck in affairs because we attach to the other person’s words while we explain away their behaviors, which don’t match.
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Sep 26, 20222 min read


How to Deal When Your Affair Ends A Friendship
How do you cope when a valued friend learns about your affair and it ends your friendship? This can be a painful and unexpected response...
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Aug 9, 20225 min read


Why is An Affair So Hard to Stop?
Get my Masterclass that's helped HUNDREDS of people successfully end their affair -- all while also growing and learning in important ways, at the same time. There’s no mistaking that once an affair has begun its extremely hard to stop. But why? You might wonder. After all, you have self-control, right? So can’t you reason your way out of an affair? Why can’t you just cut it off? Here are the main reasons that ending an affair is so difficult: Affairs Are Addictive Having an
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Jul 25, 20223 min read


Will My Spouse’s Affair End on its Own?
Will an affair end on its own? Waiting out infidity is challenging but possible. Get help knowing when to wait and when to go.
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Jul 7, 20223 min read


Affairs and Gottman's Four Horsemen: Divorce Predictor
If you're evaluating your marriage after the discovery of an affair, or if you're trying to navigate the post-affair discovery phase, you...
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Jun 22, 20223 min read


3 Ways to Make Your Marriage Better After an Affair
How to improve your marriage after an affair. Infidelity can lead to a better marriage with commitment and hard work.
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Jun 11, 20224 min read


When Your Marriage Ends Due to Infidelity: Recommended Podcasts
Infidelity is such a strange thing. On the one hand, it seems to be a catalyst to most divorces. On the other hand, it's not talked about...
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May 1, 20222 min read


3 Things Not to Do When You Discover Your Spouse's Affair
"D-Day" happened.... Discovery Day, that is. Your worst suspicions are true. Your husband/wife/partner has been seeing someone else or...
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Apr 18, 20223 min read


What to Do When Your Spouse Won't End Their Affair
Help! My spouse is having an affair, and even after they've promised to end it, they haven't. What do I do? You've discovered that your...
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Mar 29, 20225 min read
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